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Building Walls vs Building Trust: The Architecture of Our Emotional Lives
Luke Row 09/05/2025 Luke Row 09/05/2025

Building Walls vs Building Trust: The Architecture of Our Emotional Lives

We often build walls when what we truly need is to build trust. These walls feel like protection, but ultimately isolate us. The paradox: walls promise safety but deliver confinement, while trust offers a more profound form of security.

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Why a Square? The Meaning Behind the New Logo
Luke Row 14/04/2025 Luke Row 14/04/2025

Why a Square? The Meaning Behind the New Logo

A quiet reflection on the new square logo and how it symbolises the therapeutic frame: a steady, containing space where something real can unfold.

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The Internal Cookie Cutter: Why You Might Feel Like You’re Failing at Being Yourself
Luke Row 12/04/2025 Luke Row 12/04/2025

The Internal Cookie Cutter: Why You Might Feel Like You’re Failing at Being Yourself

Many of us live with a quiet pressure to be calm, capable, and in control — even when it costs us. In this article, I explore the idea of the “internal cookie cutter”: the rigid mould we unconsciously try to fit, where it comes from, and how therapy can help us soften it.

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Therapy Isn’t About Fixing You. It’s About Understanding You
Luke Row 31/03/2025 Luke Row 31/03/2025

Therapy Isn’t About Fixing You. It’s About Understanding You

Therapy isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding why you feel the way you do — and what it might mean.

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Why Do I Struggle to Talk About How I Feel?
Luke Row 26/03/2025 Luke Row 26/03/2025

Why Do I Struggle to Talk About How I Feel?

Not all feelings come with words. But that doesn’t mean they’re not trying to speak.

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Therapy for Mental Health: Cultivating the Inner Capacities That Help Us Thrive
Luke Row 28/11/2024 Luke Row 28/11/2024

Therapy for Mental Health: Cultivating the Inner Capacities That Help Us Thrive

Mental health isn’t just the absence of illness — it’s the presence of inner strengths. This post explores how therapy helps us grow the capacities that support long-term wellbeing.

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New Research Highlights Benefits of Psychoanalytic Therapy for Depression Linked to Childhood Trauma
Luke Row 15/09/2024 Luke Row 15/09/2024

New Research Highlights Benefits of Psychoanalytic Therapy for Depression Linked to Childhood Trauma

The researchers found that patients reporting higher levels of childhood trauma showed greater improvement in depressive symptoms when treated with psychoanalytic therapy compared to those who received CBT.

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Leadership and Mental Health: Why Leaders Struggle in Silence
Luke Row 24/10/2023 Luke Row 24/10/2023

Leadership and Mental Health: Why Leaders Struggle in Silence

Dispensing emotional support to your team whilst also grappling with your own emotional difficulties can feel like an unending uphill struggle.

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Rewriting the Code: How Psychodynamic Therapy Helps Us Understand Our Early Programming
Luke Row 09/04/2023 Luke Row 09/04/2023

Rewriting the Code: How Psychodynamic Therapy Helps Us Understand Our Early Programming

Your inner code was shaped before you could choose it. Psychodynamic therapy helps you understand where it came from — and how to change it.

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The Limits of Short-Term Therapy: Why 8 Sessions Often Isn’t Enough
Luke Row 10/01/2023 Luke Row 10/01/2023

The Limits of Short-Term Therapy: Why 8 Sessions Often Isn’t Enough

If short-term therapy didn’t feel like enough, you’re not alone. This article explains why deeper work can take more time — and why that’s okay.

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Building Walls vs Building Trust: The Architecture of Our Emotional Lives
May 9, 2025
Luke Row
Building Walls vs Building Trust: The Architecture of Our Emotional Lives
May 9, 2025
Luke Row

We often build walls when what we truly need is to build trust. These walls feel like protection, but ultimately isolate us. The paradox: walls promise safety but deliver confinement, while trust offers a more profound form of security.

Read More →
May 9, 2025
Luke Row
Why a Square? The Meaning Behind the New Logo
Apr 14, 2025
Luke Row
Why a Square? The Meaning Behind the New Logo
Apr 14, 2025
Luke Row

A quiet reflection on the new square logo and how it symbolises the therapeutic frame: a steady, containing space where something real can unfold.

Read More →
Apr 14, 2025
Luke Row
The Internal Cookie Cutter: Why You Might Feel Like You’re Failing at Being Yourself
Apr 12, 2025
Luke Row
The Internal Cookie Cutter: Why You Might Feel Like You’re Failing at Being Yourself
Apr 12, 2025
Luke Row

Many of us live with a quiet pressure to be calm, capable, and in control — even when it costs us. In this article, I explore the idea of the “internal cookie cutter”: the rigid mould we unconsciously try to fit, where it comes from, and how therapy can help us soften it.

Read More →
Apr 12, 2025
Luke Row
Therapy Isn’t About Fixing You. It’s About Understanding You
Mar 31, 2025
Luke Row
Therapy Isn’t About Fixing You. It’s About Understanding You
Mar 31, 2025
Luke Row

Therapy isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding why you feel the way you do — and what it might mean.

Read More →
Mar 31, 2025
Luke Row
Why Do I Struggle to Talk About How I Feel?
Mar 26, 2025
Luke Row
Why Do I Struggle to Talk About How I Feel?
Mar 26, 2025
Luke Row

Not all feelings come with words. But that doesn’t mean they’re not trying to speak.

Read More →
Mar 26, 2025
Luke Row
Therapy for Mental Health: Cultivating the Inner Capacities That Help Us Thrive
Nov 28, 2024
Luke Row
Therapy for Mental Health: Cultivating the Inner Capacities That Help Us Thrive
Nov 28, 2024
Luke Row

Mental health isn’t just the absence of illness — it’s the presence of inner strengths. This post explores how therapy helps us grow the capacities that support long-term wellbeing.

Read More →
Nov 28, 2024
Luke Row

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